Within this occurrence, Dita and you can Dajana approach the brand new questionable subject regarding dating/marrying away from Albanian community
Inside extremely questioned procedure, Dita and you will Dajana strategy the topic out-of each other factors out of feedback which is: the coziness and you may expertise off relationship/marrying during the community, in addition to desired and beautiful extension of people which is due to relationship/marrying outside of they. They read aloud a message sent away from good listener who shares her facts out of relationships a beneficial Latino male during the miracle for five decades and just how it has affected their matchmaking prior to now, and you can requests advice on dealing with it inescapable point along with her family members just like the she is happy to has actually a premier-peak connection with him subsequently. Dita and you can Dajana express their dating knowledge of low-Albanian guys and you may establish as to the reasons it on their own avert from matchmaking Albanian males. They discuss the pro’s and you can con’s that are included with it. They dissect the forbidden subject by the wisdom why Albanians become this crazy stress to date/get married within society, as well as problem so it into the-supposed and you can dated formality of the emphasizing the sweetness that accompanies getting the find this independence to date/marry Who you Love without having to face any effects for example as actually shunned, singled-aside, chatted about or-poor circumstances scenario- getting “disowned”. As to the reasons cannot i undertake everyone aside from battle, religion, sex, and you will people and begin to decide whom i have a high-height partnership having merely about how exactly it love and you may cure you? Exactly why is it so difficult to own Albanians to grasp the idea one “outsiders” are only because desperate to show brand new Albanian society and you may pamper by themselves within it? Worries you to Albanians have regarding “losing” its community/traditions as a result of the society broadening the horizons merely exhibits brand new worry into facts because of the rejecting those who create plan to day/marry away from community. Just how will they be designed to share the people the help of its the-receive spouse/family members for people who avoid him or her just before capable begin to do very? As to why can not Albanians have fun with its rigorous religion off a tight-knit family members ethical and implement that to those just who go out/marry outside of their neighborhood so you can invited all of them with open possession and invite those who are not Albanian to embrace the community as well?
Within episode, Dita and you may Dajana approach the fresh new controversial subject out of matchmaking/marrying outside of the Albanian people
Inside highly expected topic, Dita and you can Dajana means the topic of both circumstances off viewpoints that is: the comfort and you may expertise away from relationship/marrying into the society, plus the invited and delightful expansion of one’s people that’s due to relationship/marrying away from they. It read out loud a contact sent of good listener exactly who shares their facts out of matchmaking an excellent Latino men in magic for 5 age and how it’s affected its relationships in past times, and you may wants tips on dealing with it inescapable situation with her nearest and dearest once the she’s willing to has actually a top-height connection which have him later. Dita and you may Dajana share their particular relationship knowledge of low-Albanian guys and you will identify as to why it themselves avert regarding matchmaking Albanian guys. They talk about the pro’s and con’s that are included with so it. They dissect the very taboo topic from the skills why Albanians become this insane pressure to date/get married in their area, in addition to difficulty that it to your-supposed and you will outdated formality from the centering on the beauty that comes with getting the liberty thus far/wed Whom you Like without the need to deal with one consequences such as for example as being shunned, singled-aside, chatted about or-terrible situation condition- are “disowned”. Why can not i take on everybody no matter competition, faith, sex, and society and begin to choose whom we have a high-top union that have merely exactly how they love and you will eliminate united states? Just why is it so difficult to own Albanians to grasp the notion you to definitely “outsiders” are only just like the desperate to show this new Albanian community and you may pamper on their own in it? Worries that Albanians has actually off “losing” its society/life as a result of the people expanding their limits only exhibits the latest fear on truth by rejecting people who perform propose to big date/marry away from people. Just how are they supposed to share the people employing the fresh-discovered spouse/loved ones for many who ignore them prior to capable beginning to carry out very? As to why can’t Albanians play with the rigorous trust off a rigid-knit family unit members moral and implement that to the people who date/get married outside of its people to enjoy all of them with open hands and permit people that are not Albanian in order to incorporate the newest community because the well?